Ending a Relationship? Why not do it right?

Ending a Relationship?  Why Not Do it Right?

If you are ending a relationship, whether you want to or not, you can choose to ‘end it right’.  So many of us have experienced the heartbreak of goodbyes.  It may be the hardest thing you ever have to go through.  So much loss, so much uncertainty, so much fear, so much anger.  Because it can feel so insane, we wind up acting insanely!!

Don’t deny it.  You feel you that are being ‘pushed’ into acting crazy, forced into behaving in ways that you are truly not.  I know.  I experienced it too.  

But what if it doesn’t have to be that way?  What if, among the hurt, anger and fear, you can still hold on to the true person you really are at your core. A respectful person.  A kind person.  A compassionate person.  A loving person.  Under all that hurt, bitterness, anger, fear and craziness, trust me--you are still there.

I know that you don’t want to be that person.  You genuinely don’t want to be hurtful, disrespecting, nasty, mean, or even vengeful.  But your feelings, distorted beliefs and destructive actions seem to push you there.
  

To Part Consciously                      

Conscious Partings means to part ways with an increased  awareness of who you truly are and who, definitely, you are not.  It means to become aware of what is driving your hurtful, destructive actions and make the conscious choice to act more accordingly to who you really are at your core.  It is about becoming more mindful of your feelings, more aware of your distorted beliefs, take calming breathes and quiet the mental noise so you can reclaim your true Self.

I write these blogs to help you as you move through the relationship-ending process.  To help you do it right. Whether you are the one doing the leaving or the one being left, you can do your parting from a place of love.

LOVE FOR YOUR SELF.